Elliott Smith "Waltz 2 (XO)"

"Waltz #2 (XO)" is one of Elliott Smith's most celebrated songs, released in 1998 as the lead single from his fourth studio album, XO.1 The song is widely regarded as a centerpiece of Smith’s catalog, praised for its emotional depth, intricate arrangement, and autobiographical resonance.23

Background and Release

• Released: September 21, 1998
• Album: XO
• Length: 4:40
• Label: DreamWorks
• B-side: "Our Thing"
• Chart Performance: Peaked at #52 on the UK Singles Chart, Smith’s highest UK chart placement.1

Lyrical Themes and Interpretation

"Waltz #2 (XO)" is often interpreted as a deeply personal reflection on Smith’s family life, particularly his relationship with his mother and stepfather.42 The lyrics weave a narrative set in a karaoke bar, where characters—often read as stand-ins for Smith’s mother (Bunny) and stepfather (Charlie)—select songs that mirror their strained relationship. The mother performs "Cathy’s Clown," and the stepfather responds with "You’re No Good," illustrating a cycle of emotional distance and conflict.2

The refrain, "I’m never gonna know you now, but I’m gonna love you anyhow," is widely cited as one of Smith's most haunting and beautiful lines, encapsulating a sense of unconditional love amid emotional estrangement.523 The song’s title and waltz rhythm evoke both the formality and melancholy of a dance, with the "XO" signifying both "hugs and kisses" and, more obliquely, a sense of finality or dismissal.2

Musical Style

Musically, the song is set in a 3/4 waltz time signature, but instead of suggesting grace, Smith uses it to underscore emotional wounds.3 The arrangement features staccato drums, minor-key guitar chords, and swirling strings, creating a lush yet disorienting soundscape that contrasts with the rawness of the lyrics.23 This track marked a shift in Smith’s sound toward more elaborate production, moving beyond the sparse folk of his earlier work.3

Reception and Legacy

"Waltz #2 (XO)" is frequently cited as one of Elliott Smith’s greatest achievements. Fans and critics alike praise its melodic beauty, narrative strength, and emotional impact.542 Slate called it Smith’s best song, noting its blend of autobiographical detail and metaphorical abstraction.2 On fan forums, it consistently ranks among his most beloved tracks, often described as the definitive Elliott Smith song.5

The song has been covered by artists such as Kiki and Herb and Dan Mangan, further cementing its influence.1

Notable Lyrics

"I’m never gonna know you now, but I’m gonna love you anyhow."

This line, repeated throughout the song, is emblematic of Smith’s ability to convey profound vulnerability and longing in simple, direct language.5423

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Conclusion

"Waltz #2 (XO)" stands as a quintessential Elliott Smith song, blending autobiographical pain, melodic sophistication, and emotional candor. Its enduring acclaim among fans and critics attests to Smith’s unique ability to transform personal turmoil into universally resonant art.5423